Comments on: Dating After Divorce: More on Cheaters http://www.nevertoolate.biz/2007/09/04/more-on-cheaters/ it's never too late for love Fri, 19 Mar 2010 19:24:17 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Sue http://www.nevertoolate.biz/2007/09/04/more-on-cheaters/comment-page-1/#comment-54 Sue Thu, 13 Sep 2007 14:34:43 +0000 http://www.nevertoolate.biz/2007/09/04/more-on-cheaters/#comment-54 The "How do I get anyone to do anything" is a futile question. Relationships are about compromise. No relationship is perfect and you're not going to love every single thing about your partner. Being treated poorly is a completely different story. Maybe because I'm 44 I have less patience for these types of questions. I'd rather be alone than spend my time teaching someone how to treat me with respect & decency. The “How do I get anyone to do anything” is a futile question. Relationships are about compromise. No relationship is perfect and you’re not going to love every single thing about your partner. Being treated poorly is a completely different story. Maybe because I’m 44 I have less patience for these types of questions. I’d rather be alone than spend my time teaching someone how to treat me with respect & decency.

]]> By: Ronnie http://www.nevertoolate.biz/2007/09/04/more-on-cheaters/comment-page-1/#comment-37 Ronnie Wed, 05 Sep 2007 15:05:44 +0000 http://www.nevertoolate.biz/2007/09/04/more-on-cheaters/#comment-37 Hi Jeff, To me, it's the hard cold truth that sounds harsh to women who often want to give the benefit of the doubt or make excuses for a man who strays. Many people try to soften things so they "land better" - but then with far less impact! Or they offer options - it could be this, it could be that. You just put your stake in the ground to tell like it is. I'll certainly be back to read more on your blog. --Ronnie Hi Jeff,

To me, it’s the hard cold truth that sounds harsh to women who often want to give the benefit of the doubt or make excuses for a man who strays. Many people try to soften things so they “land better” – but then with far less impact! Or they offer options – it could be this, it could be that. You just put your stake in the ground to tell like it is. I’ll certainly be back to read more on your blog.
–Ronnie

]]> By: Jeff Mac http://www.nevertoolate.biz/2007/09/04/more-on-cheaters/comment-page-1/#comment-36 Jeff Mac Wed, 05 Sep 2007 14:33:30 +0000 http://www.nevertoolate.biz/2007/09/04/more-on-cheaters/#comment-36 Hey Ronnie Ann! You know, I didn't even think I was being all that harsh when I wrote that. I think what's harsh is when the cheat-EEs end up asking themselves, "What did I do to make him/her do that, and what can I do to stop it?" I love your site, and thanks so much for the link! -Jeff Mac http://manslations.com Hey Ronnie Ann!

You know, I didn’t even think I was being all that harsh when I wrote that. I think what’s harsh is when the cheat-EEs end up asking themselves, “What did I do to make him/her do that, and what can I do to stop it?”

I love your site, and thanks so much for the link!

-Jeff Mac
http://manslations.com

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