Comments on: Dating Over 40: Three Bits of “Bad Dating Advice” http://www.nevertoolate.biz/2007/11/29/three-bits-of-bad-dating-advice/ it's never too late for love Wed, 08 Feb 2012 13:27:42 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Janet Lowrey http://www.nevertoolate.biz/2007/11/29/three-bits-of-bad-dating-advice/#comment-12476 Janet Lowrey Fri, 15 Aug 2008 16:17:49 +0000 http://www.nevertoolate.biz/2007/11/29/three-bits-of-bad-dating-advice/#comment-12476 Pelase send info on dating over 50 Pelase send info on dating over 50

]]> By: John Tesh Offers Truly Useless Dating Advice http://www.nevertoolate.biz/2007/11/29/three-bits-of-bad-dating-advice/#comment-975 John Tesh Offers Truly Useless Dating Advice Sat, 22 Dec 2007 01:53:55 +0000 http://www.nevertoolate.biz/2007/11/29/three-bits-of-bad-dating-advice/#comment-975 [...] reminds me of my post on Three Bits of Bad Dating Advice - truth is I wanted to call that post - Bad Dating Advice that Infuriates Me - but I didn’t [...] [...] reminds me of my post on Three Bits of Bad Dating Advice – truth is I wanted to call that post – Bad Dating Advice that Infuriates Me – but I didn’t [...]

]]> By: Ronnie http://www.nevertoolate.biz/2007/11/29/three-bits-of-bad-dating-advice/#comment-800 Ronnie Wed, 12 Dec 2007 14:28:26 +0000 http://www.nevertoolate.biz/2007/11/29/three-bits-of-bad-dating-advice/#comment-800 Yes, that is true. Thanks for your input. Grieving and healing after a long-term relationship are very important for future dating success. But how long does that take? Personally I let years fly by. I wish someone had encouraged me to get back in the swing. Also, many clients stop dating after being disappointed by a three date loss. (I did this too.) While I can understand that kind of thing, I would say unrealistic expectations and projecting into the future are the culprit here. Stay in the moment about any particular prospect to avoid this emotional pitfall. My point is - stagnation will not bring you the love you want. Healing and grieving are not stagnation - they are an active process that has it's time and place. Yes, that is true. Thanks for your input. Grieving and healing after a long-term relationship are very important for future dating success. But how long does that take? Personally I let years fly by. I wish someone had encouraged me to get back in the swing.

Also, many clients stop dating after being disappointed by a three date loss. (I did this too.) While I can understand that kind of thing, I would say unrealistic expectations and projecting into the future are the culprit here. Stay in the moment about any particular prospect to avoid this emotional pitfall.

My point is – stagnation will not bring you the love you want. Healing and grieving are not stagnation – they are an active process that has it’s time and place.

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