Mar 31
There are countless reasons why a younger man might date an older woman, but this week, I’ll give you a list of seven reasons that are the most probable from this dating coach’s perspective. Today, you’ll find three below. More will follow later this week so check back!
1) For Lust
Maybe you’re just hot and he […]
Mar 28
8 Minute Dating is Back in CT!
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Good news! For a long time now, 8 Minute Dating has been lacking in hostesses and so there haven’t been many events. But in Arpil Hartford has three events up to age 49 and New Haven County has three as well. For some reason, two of the events are actually listed in New Haven, and […]
Mar 27
Have you seen Katie Couric lately? I don’t watch the news so I haven’t been keeping up but she looks really good. And she seems to be smiling a lot - why is that you may wonder. well at 51, Katie is dating Brooks Perlin, a rich, entrepreneur of just 33 years. Gee, that’s an 18 […]
Mar 24
Here’s the latest installment of our mid-life dater series, Shellie’s adventure in finding love. To recap where we are, Shellie has been seeing Mitch for close to 8 weeks. She’s been enjoying the slow build, getting to know and appreciate Mitch which is contrary to her usual jump-in with both feet approach.
Shellie tends to go […]
Mar 20
Pardon my fury, but I can’t help but get riled up when I read advice like this from another dating professional.
Matt of Matched in Manhattan (Lifetime network show) writes an advice column for a site called SassyBean. In this post, a woman states how in love she is with her boyfriend and that she’d like […]
Mar 19
Last night I met a woman at a networking event who was distraught from the recent demise of her latest relationship. As Karen told me her story, I started to recognize the pattern before she could even finish.
Her relationship with Scott started out with a bang. They met online and got close very quickly. He […]
Mar 14
Did you ever date a guy who you had a great time with and saw weekly, but for some reason, never on the weekends?
What’s up with that?
I met this guy at a singles dance. Very attractive, kind of macho even. Sort of a bad boy still at 40. You know the kind of guy. We caught […]
Mar 11
Have you encountered one of these guys? The banter and flirting back and forth via the Internet is fantastic. He has such a great sense of humor and seems really fun and interested in you. After all, why would he waste so much time flirting with you if he didn’t like you? And if he […]
Mar 10
Did you catch the last episode of Patti Stanger’s Millionaire Matchmaker on Bravo? What a shocker! One of her clients, Paul met his first match, Cidney, and during the date while flying around in a helicopter, he asked her to marry him! I was stunned.
Talk about love at first sight. Is that really possible? Maybe it was altitude sickness?
And what […]
Mar 7
Diary of a Mid-Life Dater - News on the New Man
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Spoke with Shellie again yesterday. Things with Mitch are percolating along. It seems Mitch likes to bring her little presents. A small fruit bread he baked, some fruit he canned last summer. Hmmm, not the traditional fare but sweet none the less. And the man cooks! Wa-hoo!
Shellie repeated again how different Mitch is. Plus, the way things […]
Mar 7
The Secret To Finding Love Today - How to Apply the Law of Attraction to Create the Love-Life You Want!
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Northhampton, MA - a Pre-Event for the Whole Health Expo
Are you suddenly single again and unsure where to start looking? Maybe you’ve been single for a while, but feel frustrated about your results. Don’t worry, "The Secret" can help. In this uplifting and information-packed workshop, you’ll learn how to apply the law of attraction to your love-life. You’ll […]
Mar 6
Thursday, March 6th 7:00-9:00pm Fairfield Continuing Ed, Fairfield CT
To register, call 203-255-8376 or visit www.FairfieldContinuingEd.com
Discover basic Feng Shui principles about the Love Corner in your home and how to harmonize the energy for the best romance results. You’ll learn how to assess your current love corner and ways to turn up the dial to attract love […]
Mar 4
How exciting! One of my clients has just connected with a new man with real potential. Honestly, we are both thrilled. And she has allowed me to share her story with you in this new series of posts- Diary of a Mid-Life Dater.
Shellie has been divorced for 15 years. Her marriage ended when she was […]
Mar 3
When Will I be Stale on Match.com?
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The other day my client Cheryl asked me if after a year on Match, was she now considered stale?
I thought this was a fascinating question. How long does it take before you should switch sites to be considered new again? I responded by asking a few questions:
Was her profile still getting viewed?
Was she still getting email from […]

