10 New Year’s Resolutions to Find Love in 2012
10 Resolutions to Find Love
I wanted to share with you my top 10 New Year’s Resolutions to Find love in 2012. They were recently posted on the Best Daily Dates’s blog! As a dating coach for women over 40, these are the kinds of tips I share with my clients to help them find love faster. Here are a few highlights, but you can see all 10 on their website.
2. I will give more types of people a chance.
One of the biggest challenges my clients face is seeking a specific type of person. I encourage them to cast a wider net so they can date a variety of people. Often, when you have a type, that person ahs the good things you like along with all the characteristics that cause your relationships to end. Think back to all the people you have dated who were exactly your type…where are they now? Chances are, if you get past your type, you’ll find a better partner.
7. I will look for what IS GOOD in people.
It’s so easy to find fault with your dates. The challenge I ask of my dating coaching clients is for them to find what IS GOOD about their dates. When you start to notice the good in people, you will be more open, easier to be with, more fun and far more approachable and attractive to the opposite sex. There is a lot of good in the single people out there, even if that person isn’t right for you. Shift your perspective and discover how it lightens your spirit and gives you a more positive attitude.
8. I will not “bash” the other gender for fun with friends.
I work with my dating coaching clients to help them understand this universal principle. When you talk badly about the opposite sex, you send out negative vibes. Oh yes, men and women can tell when you have a negative attitude about them as a group. It’s like a gray cloud that hangs over your head making you far less attractive. I know this can be fun with friends, but I advise you to stop doing it. You’ll thank me when you notice how many more positive interactions you have with people.
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