To all the single women out there reading this post:
Has anyone told you lately that you are really wonderful? Do you know that? It’s completely true. From the top of your head to the tip of your toes. Every single drop of your being is magnificent. Let me say it once more:
You are wonderful!
So, what’s your reaction to that? Did you push the idea away, thinking “That’s not really true”? Or could you soak in the praise, knowing how valid that description of you is?
As your dating coach, I sure hope your reaction was the second one!
This Thanksgiving I am spending time giving serious thought to what I am grateful for in my life. While I do feel gratitude for some things, this year I am making a bigger effort to look at more parts of my life. Last week I focused on the people who surround me. This week, I decided it was time to focus on what I’m grateful about me.
Whether you believe it or not, you are special. A unique human being with a personality as individual as a snowflake. You share your presence with those around you, have your own way of looking at things, and make a contribution to the planet. You may be a full time mom, a grandmother, an aunt or sister, a career woman, a volunteer, a good friend, an assistant. Perhaps you are good at math or wonderfully creative.
And you have special gifts to make a man happy. Maybe it’s the way you whisper a man’s name, text or email, support his vision, remind him of appointments, cook delectable meals, massage his shoulders, laugh at his jokes, help him feel masculine and make him smile.
Right now, please take just 30 seconds to appreciate the amazing woman you are, just as you are right now. In this moment, celebrate what you have achieved, and what you bring to the party of life. Breathe in the glory of your being, humanness and spirit. You are made with God’s thumb print and deserve to love and appreciate yourself like no other.
As I often say to my dating coaching clients, self love is the basis for all love. So, this thanksgiving holiday as you scurry in the kitchen to prepare a big meal, or go to another home and bring a special dish, please take time out to remember to give thanks for who you are right now. When you learn how to treat yourself right, others will follow in your footsteps.
And I’m sure there are so many others who do as well. But most importantly, take note of yourself. Love yourself. Be grateful for who you are in this moment.
When you take the time to do this exercise, even if it’s just for a few moments, you allow your energy to shimmer and shine. You start to sparkle with self love and become so much more magnetic. Your power to attract skyrockets.
Have a very Happy Thanksgiving Holiday
Wishing you love,