Can Long Distance Relationships Really Work Out?

Dear Ronnie – The Dating Coach I believe I will be forever single. I was in a 10-year bad relationship which is not over. I have dated on and off for several years, but never intentionally looking for a life partner. Just recently, on vacation to Jamaica, I met this man and we fell...

Can I Rekindle the Spark and Connection We Had at the Start?

Dear Ronnie the Dating Coach for Women, I am 40, and newly single. I’ve been seeing a man for about a month and I broke all your rules, but he is still calling me. At least for now. Things have definitely been cooling off. When we met, it was all electricity and we both...

Hey Cinderella – Sweep that Man Out of Your Life!

Dear Ronnie, I am in dire need of some advice. I have been dating a guy for 3 months. I have my own apartment, but am at his house a lot, 2-4 days during the week. When I’m there, I act as if we are married – cooking, cleaning, laundry, taking care of his dogs when he is out of...

Hot Chemistry Does Not Imply a “Meant to Be” Relationship

As a dating coach for women who are dating over 40 or dating after divorce, I hear a lot about the need for chemistry. My clients talk about instant chemistry, hot chemistry, sparks flying, etc. You get the picture and you probably have your own description of this as well. While I...

Are You a Relationship Loser? Dating After Divorce

Have you had more than one long-term relationship?  Have you been married more than once? Do you feel like you pick the wrong men? A lot of people feel like a loser about their relationships. Maybe they’ve had a few long-term relationships that went south. And if you asked...

Shift Your Perspective, Shift Your Love Life After Divorce

Yesterday, I had lunch with my friend Beth. She’s seeing a new guy and she’s reached the 3 month mark, a pivotal time in a new relationship. While she has really been enjoying Tom, he had begun doing a few things that started getting under her skin. Last...