5 Golden Rings

Remember that fun Christmas song “A Partridge in a Pair Tree”? It has gifts that you sing about – one for each of the 12 days of Christmas. The fifth day features “5 golden rings”.  As a single woman, when you hear this, your thoughts might drift off to something like…Five? All I need is one!

It’s true, one golden ring is what many single women seek. For some, you have not found the right man yet and haven’t gotten to the altar. For others, you’ve been to the altar and back, having gotten divorced. Yet, you might want to marry again. And why not, if that is your heart’s desire?

So, this ring you dream of, how are you going to get it? You can’t grab it on the carousel – that’s a brass ring. You won’t likely find what you want in a box of Crackerjacks either. You can buy one for yourself, but the sentiment won’t be there. It’s not one of the gold rings from the Olympics.

The ring you want is a symbol, not just a piece of gold jewelry. It’s a symbol of commitment and love.

If you have a deep desire to find love, as your dating coach I entreat you! Do something about it!

Now you may say to me, Ronnie, I’ve done a lot to meet the right man, but still haven’t found him. OK, I hear you. It happens. These things can take time. If you’ve been dating for a while without getting the results you want, here’s a clue about what to do next…

Try something different.

You see, if you want your result to be different, you have to DO something different. You can’t keep following the same footsteps, attending the same dances, going to the same bars, or whatever you are doing and expect that something miraculous will happen. Uh uh. Nope, that’s not how things work.

Here are some suggestions to get you out of your dating rut:

1. Conduct a self-assessment to see if  you might be in your own way.
   - Are you friendly enough?
   - Are you too picky?
   - Are you quick to judge?
   - Do you have a type?
   - Are you fun and easy to be with?
   - Do you complain a lot about dating to the men you meet?
2. Is your confidence where it should be? What can you do to bolster your self-esteem?
3. You have to follow a new path with some new avenues to meet men.
   - Look up some Meetup groups
   - Talk to other singles to find out what they do and where they go
   - Get over your fear of online dating and give it a shot.

Are ready to give online dating a chance?

I’ve got an amazing Online Dating workshop for you that starts January 16th.

How to Sizzle vs. Fizzle Online

This group coaching program will show you how to write a profile that gets attention and emails that get answered. Get tips about your photo and what to expect. When you know the inside scoop about this powerful way to meet lots of men quickly, you’ll not only feel more comfortable, you won’t get frustrated like other singles do. That’s because you’ll be working with a dating coach and expert who knows how to get the most out of your online dating efforts.

If you act fast, you can not only save $50, but you’ll also get an incredible bonus worth $257!

Click here to get all the details and register. Save your spot because this is going to be the best coaching program happening in January, 2012!

Photo Credit: Corinna A. Carlson

Tired of Silent Nights and Being Single?

If you’ve been single for a while, you have likely spent many nights alone. Those are the “Silent Nights” I’m talking about, a take off on the famous Christmas song.

It’s certainly not all bad! No struggling with the covers. No snoring. At least not by anyone but you. Going to sleep any time you want. Watching TV till the wee hours if you feel like it. There are benefits of sleeping alone for sure.

But sometimes, it might be nice to snuggle up to a man. Cuddle next to him for warmth and affection. Breath in his scent and feel the stubble on his chin. And maybe something more.

Being single, this is what my dating coaching clients tell me they miss the most. The closeness, affection, kisses and having someone to share every day life with.

So, what are you going to do about it? Once the holiday busy-ness is over, will you make finding love a priority? Will you…

• Decide to go online
• Try a speed dating
• Attend a meetup single events?
• Ask a friend if she knows anyone to fix you up with
• Smile more and become more aware of the men around you in your every day life

Good men are out there. But you have to be visible and mingling to meet them.

As your dating coach, let me ask you -  what’s it going to be? Will you have countless silent nights in front of you? Have you had enough and feel tired of being single? Or will you make an effort in 2012 to change your dating behavior?

• Will you shift into action and take steps to meet men?
• Will you open your heart and mind to men and give them a chance?
• Will you work on your self-esteem so when you do get out there, you’ll appear confident?

If you are ready to get your feet wet on the Internet, I’m offering the How to Sizzle vs. Fizzle Online Group Coaching Program starting January 16th. You still have time to save $50 off the fee AND get an incredible bonus worth $257! But all this ends on New Year’s Eve at midnight.

Don’t wait and miss out. Decide, right now that 2012 is your year for love! Then, let me help you so your dreams of love can come true. Get all the info here

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“If you want to increase your appeal, start by building your confidence. Both genders find confidence very attractive.”

In this one-hour teleclass, you’ll hear about your self-image and obstacles that keep you from feeling good. Learn simple techniques you can use right away to improve your self-esteem quickly. More than 80% of your beauty is based on how you feel about yourself.

When you build yourself up, you increase your appeal substantially. Plus, you’ll be able to handle rejection, an inevitable part of dating, so much better.  A strong sense of self confidence helps you feel more optimistic and keeps you going!

Here’s what will be covered:

• What is confidence?
• What sabotages feeling confident?
• How does a lack of confidence show up in your dating life?
• Why being confident is not the same as having a big ego
• Tips to build a healthy sense of dating confidence

Please join me for this extremely helpful and fun workshop by phone. This is an interactive, live workshop with plenty of time to get your questions answered.

Monday, June 13th, 8-9pm edt
Via teleclass – number provided after registration
No special phone equipment needed. Regular long distance charges may apply

Fee is just $15

In this workshop, discover:

• Seven proven dating strategies to rev up your love life and find love again.
• How to attract men with greater ease and leverage your feminine charm
• Understand the mechanics of dating, (i.e. who should call/pay)
• Learn how to apply MANifesting techniques like affirmations, visualization, cellular imprinting and shaking your fist at the Goddess!
• Shift your beliefs about love, dating and men to stop self-sabotaging behaviors.

Transform your dating karma to find the love you want and deserve. I found love after 40 and I know you can too!

Tuesday, May 3rd, 7-9pm
Mystics by the Sea, 394 New Haven Avenue, Milford, CT
Fee: $29 per person

Call Mystics by the Sea to Register Today: 203-878-5640

Do you date men who:

• Disappear
• Don’t follow through
• Don’t call when they say they will
• Text but don’t ask you out
• Wait weeks between contact?

Do you spend hour after hour wondering what you did wrong that pushed him away? Talking to your girlfriends trying to figure out what went wrong?

As your dating coach, I have the answer…
It’s not you, it’s him!

In this 50-minute dating teleclass, you’ll learn how to recognize the unavailable man so you can avoid him in the future. You can date smarter and with better results. Discover how to attract and meet better men who are interested in you and in a committed relationship. You’ll feel more hopeful and able to make choices that support your vision of love.

Monday April 4th  from 7-8pm est
Teleclass will be conducted via telephone conference line provided with all details after registration.
Teleclass fee is just $15

You’ve come a long way baby to the equality you enjoy today as a woman. Over the last 40 years, women have made great strides mastering skills that were traditionally male dominated.

But has your feminine charm has taken a back seat on your way up the corporate ladder? If so, it could be impacting your social or love life. Learn easy techniques to rekindle or enhance your innate feminine nature and relate to men outside (or in) the work place. Discover the power that is your undeniable birth right to balance your life and improve or attract romantic relationships with men.

Saturday, February 19th Noon – 1pm  Sound, Mind & Body, 680 Boston Post Rd., Milford, CT
(Near the entrance to the Merritt Parkway in the plaza with Andre Phillips Salon)

To register contact Nancy at 203-878-9642
This is a free program but space is limited.

Group Coaching Program Starts Monday night January 24th 2011

 Yes, you can meet 50 men in just 90 days. This program will open your eyes to see new ways to talk to and meet men, including building your flirting skills – the natural man-magnet tool! No matter what stage of the dating journey you’re in: active daters join to get new insights and newly single or inactive folks join to jump in the dating pool. Everyone will hear techniques that will help them and feel the benefits of group sharing.

Each session includes new dating topics to get you moving, motivated, or clear up confusion. Discover how to break the ice and start conversations with men, flirt easily and how to be an irresistible woman.

Here’s what recent participants have to say about the group coaching process:

“Being on the call made me feel so much better as I came to realize that I’m not alone. Lots of other women feel the same things that I do!” — Randi

“I didn’t do my usual ‘make excuses routine’ because I was motivated knowing the call was coming up. I didn’t want to be the only one not doing anything!” — Betsy

“Ronnie gave me several valuable tips that have made all the difference in my flirting ability.” — Michelle

Participants talked to more men in 90 days than they ever dreamed of before and had fun doing it! Their friendly, flirtatious encounters turned into more dates and today they are feeling very differently about dating. The group has really shifted everyone’s dating experience for the better.

You might ask, “How can I possibly find 50 men to talk to?”

One of the main benefits is to discover that men are everywhere you are! You won’t be dating 50 men, just TALKING TO THEM. You could meet men at the grocery store, at speed dating or a singles dance, in line at the bank, picking up your cleaning, or walking your dog. Most women just don’t notice men.

“What’s the point of meeting 50 men?”

Here are seven of the incredible behavioral and belief shifts that have transformed these women participants:

7. They used to think there weren’t any men to talk to and now, they look around to see how many men can be added to their list!

6. Meeting new men and talking to them has become fun! These women no longer see it as drudgery, thinking, “Ugh, another loser.” Turns out that a lot of these men are really interesting.

5. They discovered you don’t have to be a super model to approach men. Any woman can be friendly and flirty. And, 99.9% of the time their conversations and ice breakers are well received which has boosted their confidence.

4. They totally embraced the challenge (after initial skepticism) and plan to do to meet men at at least twice a week. This activity has become a natural part of life. They don’t stress about a particular event – because they know – if one doesn’t work out or go well, there is always another.

3. They now recognize how many men are out there. They see the abundance and have touched it so they know it’s real. That means it’s only a matter of time and a numbers game to meet the right one. How true!

2. Today, these women are adept at meeting men. They don’t sweat over starting a conversation or stammer with nerves. This is the confidence that comes with practice which cannot be achieved any other way. They didn’t start out being super sociable or flirty, but they are now.

1. The number one benefit? Meeting more men = more dates! After all, Isn’t that the number one goal?

What’s Included?

■Six one-hour group coaching sessions

Monday nights: 1/24,   2/7,  2/21,  3/7,  3/21,  4/4    from 8:00-9:00pm east coast time

■Once a week emailing for questions in between

■The book MANifesting Mr. Right (if you don’t already have one) or any audio program of your choice.

This is a $750 value when compared to private coaching and a lot more fun and inspiring!

But I want this to be an accessible program that anyone can take advantage of. That’s why this price is so incredibly low. Get on board now with the best program you’ll see any where.

All this great support and info for $99.97

How does it work?

Group coaching is a fun and inspiring way to get the support and information you need to date more successfully this summer. Get all your dating questions answered, end confusion and minimize frustration.

Where does the group meet?

You’ll dial a special conference number and everyone will be able to listen and talk. It’s easy and very convenient. No driving, no parking and no gas costs. Just a regular long distance charge on your phone bill and no special equipment. That’s it. All materials, as well as the phone number will be provided after your confirmed registration.

What if I can’t make a session?

Not going to be around for all the dates? No problem! Sessions will be recorded so that you can hear everything that happened, in case you have to miss one.

You deserve to find the love you want. Join the fun and make it happen.

Normally this program is $125, but this January, I’ve made the program more affordable so more folks can take advantage and join the fun.

Special Early Bird Registration  – pay just $99.97

Register Online Now!

Pre-registration is required.

What makes a woman irresistible?

Discover simple flirting techniques and non-verbal ways to enhance your feminine charm. You’ll learn how to:

• Let a man know you’re approachable
• Connect without saying a word,
• Improve your Desirability Index,
• Strike up a conversation and
• Attract more men than ever!

Strengthen your self-image and improve your Desirability Index. Open your eyes to the biggest dating mistakes women make today and hear how to successfully avoid them. Become a delightful woman who is irresistible to find the love you want and deserve.

Wednesday, August 11th, 7-9pm, Sticks and Stones Farm, Newtown, CT
To Register Call Annie  at 203-270-8820 or visit www.sticksandstonesfarm.com

Are you single again and not sure where to start ? Are you frustrated with your dating results?  Don’t worry, “The Secret” can help.  In this uplifting and information-packed workshop for women, you’ll learn how to apply the Law-of-Attraction to your love-life. You’ll also find out how to:

• Adopt Dater’s Mind for greater success
• Heighten your feminine charm
• Connect with your Inner Goddess to build confidence
• Flirt for the sheer fun of it
• Meet more men than ever!

And, you’ll discover how to overcome courtship confusion with Yin and Yang Dating Philosophy, plus loads of other practical dating advice that will make your efforts so much more fun and successful  When the workshop is over, you’ll leave with surefire “Attraction Plan & Action Plan” to find the love you want!

Tuesday, October 27th  7-9pm Sticks & Stones Farm, Newtown CT
Fee: $37
To register, visit www.sticksandstonesfarm.com or call 203-270-8820

          - Visualization
         -  Releasing old thought patterns
         -  Self- care and pampering
         -  Treasure mapping
         -  Chanting
         -  Conscious Choice

 Every woman has this inner allure. Even if it’s been dormant for quite some time, you’ll reconnect and claim your alluring birthright in this experiential workshop. Change the way you feel about yourself and the way men see you. Discover seven simple ways that are guaranteed to increase your feminine charm using these methods as well as others:

Saturday, February 14th, 2009, 10am – 3pm  All That Matters, Wakefield, RI 
Fee: $85
To register, visit www.AllThatMatters.com

At the end of this workshop, you’ll have lots of tools that will work specifically for you to use at home and know for sure how to attract more men than ever for the love life you deserve!