Dating After Divorce: Why Didn’t He Ask Me for a Second Date? Possible Self-Sabotage

Wednesday I wrote a post answering questions from my client about why she and her friends don’t get second dates from men who seem interested. Most of the time, when working with women dating over 40 or dating after divorce, I tell them that the reason is usually not personal. Just...

Online Dating: “Date Zero” Don’t Count Your First Date as a Real Date

In a recent dating coaching sessions with Marjorie, she kept throwing around a term I had never heard of before. She referred to her first date with a guy from Match.com as “Date Zero”. How incredibly clever! Why did Marjorie name her coffee dates “Date Zero”? Very practical...

Dating Over 40: How to Get a Second Date

You’re on a date and things seem to be going well. You start to feel more comfortable and like things maybe going in the right direction. At the end he gave you a kiss and said he’d call. But he didn’t. What did you do wrong? Why was there no second date? First I...