Hot Chemistry Does Not Imply a “Meant to Be” Relationship

As a dating coach for women who are dating over 40 or dating after divorce, I hear a lot about the need for chemistry. My clients talk about instant chemistry, hot chemistry, sparks flying, etc. You get the picture and you probably have your own description of this as well. While I...

Dating Over 40: Carolyn’s Dating Coaching Session #3

Carolyn had her third dating coaching session last night and things are starting to click! After a few weeks of dating practice, flirting with men, striking up conversations in line getting coffee and at the grocery store,  and generally becoming more aware of men in her environment, men...

Dating After Divorce: Where Are the Men Who Want to Get Serious?

Sunday night, Maddy called to inquire about coaching. We started talking about how her dating life is going and what prompted her to make the call. Maddy is very frustrated with men. She feels that they don’t want to commit or aren’t interested in finding a serious...

Dating Over 40: What about Men Who are Spontaneous?

Heather, an over 40 dating coaching client of mine, asked me about a man she had been emailing online. They had several fun exchanges over three days. He told her how his work is bi-coastal and he spends a lot of time in California. Dave wasn’t sure when he’d have time to...

Dating Over 40: Soul Mate – That’s Two 4-Letter Words

How many times have you heard a woman say, “I’m waiting for my soul mate”? I cringe every time I hear those two words. Why? Because these two words can create a tremendous obstacle in a woman’s search for a mate. Many of my over 40 dating coaching clients meet...