Here’s why…

Karen has masterfully outlined every detail about being attracted to the wrong men and how to turn things around. The back cover of her book states:  “Do you sometimes feel as if you’re wearing a KICK ME sign on your heart? If so, you are not alone. Unfortunately, there are far too many women who suffer from PRINCE HARMING SYNDROME – the tendency to become involved in troubled relationships.”

Let me give you a peek inside. I was entranced from the very first sentence:

“Once upon a time I suffered from what I call PRINCE HARMING SYNDROME - the tendency to date what I call “bad boys”, charismatic, smart, funny successful, handsome guys who seem like great catches until they suddenly erupt into a rage over innocuous things (like my not making the bed, my being 10 minutes late, my joking with a male waiter) – or these bad boys would simply prove to be dishonest cheaters.”

Sound  familiar?

I cannot tell you how many of my over 40 dating coaching clients or those dating after divorce insist on instant chemistry with a man and this is often the result – bad boys who treat them poorly. But Karen’s explanation of what this is all about and her step-by-step process to change your habits and romantic luck is truly breakthrough.

In chapter 1,  Karen fully explains how and why the Law of Attraction and affirmations work and exactly how you should put this system to work for you – by writing your own happily ever after story.

Chapter 2 outlines the five essential personality traits to look for in a real Prince Charming. Strong character isn’t descriptive  enough since Stalin, Hitler and Napoleon all had this quality, but um, we don’t want to date them (OK they are dead, but you get the idea.) Plus Karen explains warning signs to watch out for – very helpful!

In chapter 6, the author explains the changes you want to consider making to attract a Prince Charming of your own. Every detail makes complete sense and is sound advice that will work for your life regardless of circumstances. For example, why raising your self esteem and self-love are the most powerful attraction magnets around.

In chapter 8, Karen helps you trouble shoot relationship issues with suggestions that address each one.  She says, “Love at first sight is easy. It’s love at 1001 sight that can be very difficult.” Good point. To stay the course takes work and Karen shares insights that will help you survive and thrive including three savvy strategies for handling conflict.

In chapter 9, Salmansohn provides reasons why you might need to break up with your current Prince to reach for higher ground. She is thorough and supportive in every explanation and yet also cautions women in chapter 10 not to be the type of woman always throwing back the man hoping to catch a bigger/better one.

What I love about this instructional volume is how no stone has been left unturned. Karen addresses everything you can imagine with humor and sound advice that any woman can ingest and follow. The book is a quick read and yet is something to be savored as you learn about yourself, the ways of Prince Harmings and begin to apply the strategies for success.

Prince Harming Syndrome offers a recipe for avoiding future Prince Harmings and  finding your true Prince Charming. I recommend this to all my over 40 dating coaching clients and any woman who is dating after divorce. Get your copy on Amazon

Here’s what one happy attendee had to say:

“Hi Ronnie,

I can’t tell you how much I enjoyed the vision board workshop!  You have given me a lot of inspiration.  Now that I’m back home, I  read parts of the book and it is helping me rid myself of my ex, especially the chapter on red flags.  I also chanted this morning , put my vision board in my kitchen and am planning my Feng Shui  LOVE corner of my bedroom. I know you have put me on the right path -thank you!”   — Leanne – Middletown, CT

Like many of my over 40 dating coaching clients and those  getting back to dating after divorce, there is a thirst for knowledge and understanding about how dating works today. While some people think it’s rather obvious, I can tell you for sure that it’s not. 

That’s why women who take my workshops or opt for private coaching have such an advantage over other women in the dating pool.  I talk to women all the time and I can tell you that many think there are no rules and traditional ideas about dating are out the window. But that’s where the trouble begins!

What works best is to qualify the men you consider dating. And of course, you have to meet the men before you can qualify them right? Women today are confused about:

• Where to meet men
• Who should pay
• How to know if a man is genuinely interested
• How to follow up
• How to close the deal
• What to say in emails for online dating
• How to screen for the right kind of men
• How to find men who are appealing

This is the best time ever to be a single adult. Never before n the history of the world have there been so many single adults.

So, why is it that most women are unsure how to proceed?
And more than that,  many women aren’t sure if they should even bother!

Trust me, this ambivalence will keep you single. That is why dating coaching is the best investment in yourself you can imagine.

I like to stay up on what is out there. Right now I’m reading a new book just out by Karen Salmansohn called Prince Harming Syndrome.  So far I totally love it. Karen manages to provide the exact same advice I do, in a fun and straight-to-the-point way. She is SO on the money with her guidance  – from what I’ve read so far – we are totally congruent!

Whether you choose to read books to learn effective dating methods, or hire a professional dating coach, discovering what works is the smartest way to go if you’re looking for lasting love. Let the experts share their wisdom. After all, why re-create the wheel when there are wise advisers who can hand over tested plans that will work for sure.

I’ll keep you posted and will review the book officially next week.